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PDA Dad UK 

Understand Autism, Pathological Demand Avoidance and Neurodiversity 

You may have heard of Autism, Pathological Demand Avoidance and other associated neurodiversities, but do you actually understand what they are, and more importantly, WHO they are?


Autism., Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) and other neurodiversities are, while widely known, sadly misunderstood. The purpose of this channel is to raise both autism acceptance and awareness by helping to educate with understanding, and looking at all facets of autism such as Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), ADHD, Mental Health, and other related topics.

ABOUT ME- Father to a beautiful autistic and Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) daughter. 
- I run a Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ukaspsg/- Carer's Ambassador for Devon Carers- Ambassador Volunteer for DiAS- Ambassador for PDA Society

My Podcast is very personal and I'm very open about both the joys and challenges of life with a neurodiverse family and parenting Autism and Pathological Demand Avoidance.

"You're scaring the customers!" why a London restaurant asked Oliver Bromley to leave
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"You're scaring the customers!" why a London restaurant asked Oliver Bromley to leave

"You're scaring the customers!" The Shocking Reason This Man Was Asked to Leave a Restaurant 🤬 "Neurofibromatosis: A Conversation with Oliver Bromley and Adam Pearson" 👉 Join us for a powerful and inspiring conversation with Oliver Bromley and Adam Pearson, two individuals living with neurofibromatosis (NF). In this interview, they share their personal experiences, challenges, and triumphs as they navigate life with a genetic condition that affects their appearance and health. 🤬 Recently Oliver was asked to leave a restaurant due to his condition, with the manager claiming he was "scaring the customers". Oliver discusses this event and explains why, not only is it incredibly ableist, but also a hate crime. 🎦 Also joining us is Adam Pearson, who also has NF1. Adam is the star of the recent movie "A Different Man" with Sebastian Stan...a film that explores physical difference, with the director basing the character on Adam himself. Discover: ✅ The impact of NF on daily life and self-perception ✅ The challenges and triumphs of living with a visible difference ✅ The importance of representation and breaking down stereotypes ✅ The power of community and support for individuals with NF This thought-provoking conversation offers valuable insights into the lives of people with NF and highlights the importance of understanding, acceptance, and compassion. SOCIAL MEDIA Oliver Bromley FB Oliver Bromley Insta BromleyO X @Olliebromley 📍 Need a starting point? Check out these resources: Mind - Leading mental health charity in England and Wales SAMH - Scottish Association for Mental Health NI Mental Health - Northern Ireland Mental Health NHS Mental Health Services [invalid URL removed] - Find local NHS mental health services Call 111 (or 999 in an emergency) for immediate mental health support 🔗 Let's break the stigma and create a space where everyone in the UK feels comfortable talking about their mental health. Like this video? Hit that thumbs up 👍 and subscribe ▶️ for more mental health content! Leave a comment 💬 below sharing your experiences or letting us know what topics you'd like to see covered next. ---------------------- 🌈 Welcome to PDA Dad UK, your dedicated space for understanding Autism, Pathological Demand Avoidance, and the broader spectrum of neurodiversities. 🌈 In this channel, we unravel not just the 'what' but the 'who' behind these conditions. While the terms Autism and PDA are commonly recognized, true understanding is often lacking, and that’s where this channel comes in. ➡️ Our mission is to fill this gap, promoting a culture of celebration, acceptance and heightened awareness. We journey through the complex realms of autism, addressing various facets such as Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), ADHD, Mental Health, and more. 👪 Behind this channel is a devoted father of a wonderful daughter with Autism and PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), embracing the highs and lows of neurodiverse parenting. This platform reflects my life—a fusion of personal narratives, shared experiences, and informative content. ➡️ Beyond just sharing, I hold roles that connect me deeper into this community, serving as a Carer's Ambassador for Devon Carers, an Ambassador Volunteer for DiAS, and an Ambassador for the PDA Society. Every video is a heart-to-heart conversation, a professional insight, or a beacon of enlightenment on the nuances of neurodiversity. This channel is for those seeking knowledge, comfort in communal experiences, or engagement with a like-minded, passionate audience. 🎬 Embark on this enlightening journey with me. Subscribe and activate notifications to never miss an update! 🔔 ******************** 📲 Let’s Connect! Follow PDA Dad UK on social media Instagram ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/pdadaduk/ Twitter ➡️ https://twitter.com/pdadaduk Facebook ➡️ https://m.facebook.com/PDADadUK/p #nf1 #adampearson #adifferentmanI
Helping Kids Overcome School Avoidance (Anxiety)
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Helping Kids Overcome School Avoidance (Anxiety)

"Helping Your Child Overcome School Avoidance: A Parent's Guide" Is your child struggling with school avoidance or school refusal? Feeling worried and unsure how to help? This video offers practical advice and strategies for parents dealing with their child's anxiety and resistance to school. School Avoidance specialist Moira Healy and I discuss: ✅ Understanding the root causes: Identifying the underlying reasons for school avoidance. ✅ Creating a supportive environment: ✅ Fostering a positive and encouraging atmosphere at home. ✅ Effective communication: Building trust and open dialogue with your child. Join us as we explore ways to help your child feel confident, motivated, and ready to return to school. LINKS Moira Healy's Podcast https://www.moirahealy.com/podcast 🚫 School Refusal & PDA: Why "No" Might Mean More ! PDA Dad UK https://youtu.be/kJp_okIqf2I 🔗 AUTISM, PATHOLOGICAL DEMAND AVOIDANCE DIAGNOSIS and PARENT BLAME https://youtu.be/uHQCJRZNntw 🎭 AUTISM AND MASKING - understanding masking https://youtu.be/MTkZz5TWop8 🫄Fathering an Autistic Child with Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) - a dad's perspective https://youtu.be/wZ4nLiXvKXI 🔗 PDA and Puberty - The Teen's Guide to PDA https://youtu.be/4iI0WiUMA_g 🔗 The PDA Paradox: Balancing Boundaries and Low Demand 🤯 https://youtu.be/1gZd-DU0QAI 💕 Autism, Pathological Demand Avoidance and the 5 Love Languages - communicating love to kids https://youtu.be/68aBsrblvvI 📍 Need a starting point? Check out these resources: Mind - Leading mental health charity in England and Wales SAMH - Scottish Association for Mental Health NI Mental Health - Northern Ireland Mental Health NHS Mental Health Services [invalid URL removed] - Find local NHS mental health services Call 111 (or 999 in an emergency) for immediate mental health support 🔗 Let's break the stigma and create a space where everyone in the UK feels comfortable talking about their mental health. Like this video? Hit that thumbs up 👍 and subscribe ▶️ for more mental health content! Leave a comment 💬 below sharing your experiences or letting us know what topics you'd like to see covered next. ---------------------- 🌈 Welcome to PDA Dad UK, your dedicated space for understanding Autism, Pathological Demand Avoidance, and the broader spectrum of neurodiversities. 🌈 In this channel, we unravel not just the 'what' but the 'who' behind these conditions. While the terms Autism and PDA are commonly recognized, true understanding is often lacking, and that’s where this channel comes in. ➡️ Our mission is to fill this gap, promoting a culture of celebration, acceptance and heightened awareness. We journey through the complex realms of autism, addressing various facets such as Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), ADHD, Mental Health, and more. 👪 Behind this channel is a devoted father of a wonderful daughter with Autism and PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), embracing the highs and lows of neurodiverse parenting. This platform reflects my life—a fusion of personal narratives, shared experiences, and informative content. ➡️ Beyond just sharing, I hold roles that connect me deeper into this community, serving as a Carer's Ambassador for Devon Carers, an Ambassador Volunteer for DiAS, and an Ambassador for the PDA Society. Every video is a heart-to-heart conversation, a professional insight, or a beacon of enlightenment on the nuances of neurodiversity. This channel is for those seeking knowledge, comfort in communal experiences, or engagement with a like-minded, passionate audience. 🎬 Embark on this enlightening journey with me. Subscribe and activate notifications to never miss an update! 🔔 ******************** 📲 Let’s Connect! Follow PDA Dad UK on social media Instagram ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/pdadaduk/ Twitter ➡️ https://twitter.com/pdadaduk Facebook ➡️ https://m.facebook.com/PDADadUK/p #schoolavoidance #schoolrefusal #schoolissue
Why Children's Mental Health Matters Now More Than Ever
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Why Children's Mental Health Matters Now More Than Ever

"Interview with Cassie Swift: The Children's Mental Health Matters Summit" Join us for an insightful conversation with Cassie Swift, the founder and organizer of The Children's Mental Health Matters Summit. Learn about the importance of prioritizing children's mental health and discover the valuable resources and support offered at this essential event. Cassie shares her passion for empowering parents and children to navigate challenges and foster emotional well-being. Don't miss this opportunity to gain valuable insights and learn how you can make a positive impact on the lives of young people LINKS ✅ Book tickets to The Children's Mental Health Matters summit https://childrensmentalhealthmatterssummit.co.uk ✅ Eva Abley https://evaabley.weebly.com ✅ PDA and Puberty - The Teen's Guide to PDA https://youtu.be/4iI0WiUMA_g ✅ "I felt so alone" - BGT Star Eva Abley talks about her new book, "The Good, The Bad and The Wobbly" https://youtu.be/i7rFpZCJPuI 📍 Need a starting point? Check out these resources: Mind - Leading mental health charity in England and Wales SAMH - Scottish Association for Mental Health NI Mental Health - Northern Ireland Mental Health NHS Mental Health Services [invalid URL removed] - Find local NHS mental health services Call 111 (or 999 in an emergency) for immediate mental health support 🔗 Let's break the stigma and create a space where everyone in the UK feels comfortable talking about their mental health. Like this video? Hit that thumbs up 👍 and subscribe ▶️ for more mental health content! Leave a comment 💬 below sharing your experiences or letting us know what topics you'd like to see covered next. ---------------------- 🌈 Welcome to PDA Dad UK, your dedicated space for understanding Autism, Pathological Demand Avoidance, and the broader spectrum of neurodiversities. 🌈 In this channel, we unravel not just the 'what' but the 'who' behind these conditions. While the terms Autism and PDA are commonly recognized, true understanding is often lacking, and that’s where this channel comes in. ➡️ Our mission is to fill this gap, promoting a culture of celebration, acceptance and heightened awareness. We journey through the complex realms of autism, addressing various facets such as Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), ADHD, Mental Health, and more. 👪 Behind this channel is a devoted father of a wonderful daughter with Autism and PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), embracing the highs and lows of neurodiverse parenting. This platform reflects my life—a fusion of personal narratives, shared experiences, and informative content. ➡️ Beyond just sharing, I hold roles that connect me deeper into this community, serving as a Carer's Ambassador for Devon Carers, an Ambassador Volunteer for DiAS, and an Ambassador for the PDA Society. Every video is a heart-to-heart conversation, a professional insight, or a beacon of enlightenment on the nuances of neurodiversity. This channel is for those seeking knowledge, comfort in communal experiences, or engagement with a like-minded, passionate audience. 🎬 Embark on this enlightening journey with me. Subscribe and activate notifications to never miss an update! 🔔 ******************** 📲 Let’s Connect! Follow PDA Dad UK on social media Instagram ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/pdadaduk/ Twitter ➡️ https://twitter.com/pdadaduk Facebook ➡️ https://m.facebook.com/PDADadUK/ #mentalhealth #childrensmentalhealth #youthmentalhealth
PDA and Puberty - The Teen's Guide to PDA
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PDA and Puberty - The Teen's Guide to PDA

The Teen's Guide to PDA - Interview with author Laura Kerby Ever heard of PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance)? Join us as we delve into this often misunderstood condition with Laura Kerby, author of The Teen's Guide to PDA. Learn about the challenges faced by teens with PDA, strategies for coping, and how to support loved ones. Discover valuable insights from Laura's personal experiences and expertise, as well as hearing from PDA teens themselves. Don't miss this informative and compassionate conversation." In this video, you'll learn: ✅ Personal Experiences: Hear firsthand stories of overcoming obstacles and embracing individuality. ✅ Coping Strategies: Discover practical tips for managing anxiety, avoiding demands, and building self-esteem. ✅ Relationships and Socialization: Gain advice on forming meaningful connections and navigating social situations. ✅ School and Beyond: Learn how to thrive academically and plan for your future. Get ready to feel empowered and inspired as you embark on your own PDA journey. Don't miss this opportunity to connect with a fellow neurodivergent who understands your unique challenges and triumphs. LINKS P-AST https://p-ast.co.uk Purchase Teen's Guide to PDA https://amzn.to/3MuWI5v 📍 Need a starting point? Check out these resources: Mind - Leading mental health charity in England and Wales SAMH - Scottish Association for Mental Health NI Mental Health - Northern Ireland Mental Health NHS Mental Health Services [invalid URL removed] - Find local NHS mental health services Call 111 (or 999 in an emergency) for immediate mental health support 🔗 Let's break the stigma and create a space where everyone in the UK feels comfortable talking about their mental health. Like this video? Hit that thumbs up 👍 and subscribe ▶️ for more mental health content! Leave a comment 💬 below sharing your experiences or letting us know what topics you'd like to see covered next. ---------------------- 🌈 Welcome to PDA Dad UK, your dedicated space for understanding Autism, Pathological Demand Avoidance, and the broader spectrum of neurodiversities. 🌈 In this channel, we unravel not just the 'what' but the 'who' behind these conditions. While the terms Autism and PDA are commonly recognized, true understanding is often lacking, and that’s where this channel comes in. ➡️ Our mission is to fill this gap, promoting a culture of celebration, acceptance and heightened awareness. We journey through the complex realms of autism, addressing various facets such as Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), ADHD, Mental Health, and more. 👪 Behind this channel is a devoted father of a wonderful daughter with Autism and PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), embracing the highs and lows of neurodiverse parenting. This platform reflects my life—a fusion of personal narratives, shared experiences, and informative content. ➡️ Beyond just sharing, I hold roles that connect me deeper into this community, serving as a Carer's Ambassador for Devon Carers, an Ambassador Volunteer for DiAS, and an Ambassador for the PDA Society. Every video is a heart-to-heart conversation, a professional insight, or a beacon of enlightenment on the nuances of neurodiversity. This channel is for those seeking knowledge, comfort in communal experiences, or engagement with a like-minded, passionate audience. 🎬 Embark on this enlightening journey with me. Subscribe and activate notifications to never miss an update! 🔔 ******************** 📲 Let’s Connect! Follow PDA Dad UK on social media Instagram ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/pdadaduk/ Twitter ➡️ https://twitter.com/pdadaduk Facebook ➡️ https://m.facebook.com/PDADadUK/ #PDA #teen #mentalhealth #neurodiversity #selfcare
GAH!!! 🤦 My Worst Trait When I'm Struggling - Mental Health
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GAH!!! 🤦 My Worst Trait When I'm Struggling - Mental Health

Let's Talk Mental Health! Mental Health Awareness 🧠 You're not alright, mate? That's okay. Let's chat. 🇬🇧 - My worst trait is that I don't take my own advice on this. ❓ Feeling rubbish, stressed, or a bit overwhelmed? You're not alone. Mental health struggles are common, but sometimes keeping a stiff upper lip makes it feel impossible to reach out. This video dives into why talking about what you're going through is a sign of strength, not weakness. 🌎 We'll explore the benefits of sharing your story, finding support networks in the UK, and breaking down the stigma around mental health. Remember, reaching out for help is the first step on the road to feeling better. #MentalHealth #MentalHealthAwareness #YouAreNotAlone #TalkItOut #UKMentalHealth #pdadaduk In this video, we'll cover: ✅ Why bottling it up can make things worse (fancy a cuppa and a chat instead?) ✅ The power of reaching out - support is closer than you think! ✅ Finding resources specifically for UK mental health services ✅ How to start a conversation, even if you're not sure what to say 📍 Need a starting point? Check out these resources: Mind - Leading mental health charity in England and Wales SAMH - Scottish Association for Mental Health NI Mental Health - Northern Ireland Mental Health NHS Mental Health Services [invalid URL removed] - Find local NHS mental health services Call 111 (or 999 in an emergency) for immediate mental health support 🔗 Let's break the stigma and create a space where everyone in the UK feels comfortable talking about their mental health. Like this video? Hit that thumbs up 👍 and subscribe ▶️ for more mental health content! Leave a comment 💬 below sharing your experiences or letting us know what topics you'd like to see covered next. ---------------------- 🌈 Welcome to PDA Dad UK, your dedicated space for understanding Autism, Pathological Demand Avoidance, and the broader spectrum of neurodiversities. 🌈 In this channel, we unravel not just the 'what' but the 'who' behind these conditions. While the terms Autism and PDA are commonly recognized, true understanding is often lacking, and that’s where this channel comes in. ➡️ Our mission is to fill this gap, promoting a culture of celebration, acceptance and heightened awareness. We journey through the complex realms of autism, addressing various facets such as Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), ADHD, Mental Health, and more. 👪 Behind this channel is a devoted father of a wonderful daughter with Autism and PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), embracing the highs and lows of neurodiverse parenting. This platform reflects my life—a fusion of personal narratives, shared experiences, and informative content. ➡️ Beyond just sharing, I hold roles that connect me deeper into this community, serving as a Carer's Ambassador for Devon Carers, an Ambassador Volunteer for DiAS, and an Ambassador for the PDA Society. Every video is a heart-to-heart conversation, a professional insight, or a beacon of enlightenment on the nuances of neurodiversity. This channel is for those seeking knowledge, comfort in communal experiences, or engagement with a like-minded, passionate audience. 🎬 Embark on this enlightening journey with me. Subscribe and activate notifications to never miss an update! 🔔 ******************** 📲 Let’s Connect! Follow PDA Dad UK on social media Instagram ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/pdadaduk/ Twitter ➡️ https://twitter.com/pdadaduk Facebook ➡️ https://m.facebook.com/PDADadUK/ #schoolrefusal #pda #pathologicaldemandavoidance #autism #neurodiversity #neurodivergent #pdadaduk Chapters: 00:00 Introduction 00:35 The Importance of Self-care 00:57 My poor coping mechanisms 01:49 Finally reaching out 02:43 Projecting my own fears on others 05:32 The sense of relief - beginning healing 07:14 Mental Health is Invisible - Masking 08:51 How to reach out 09:32 The importance of Trust 10:59 Light at the end of the tunnel 13:13 Burnout 15:03 Allowing others to help us helps themosl
The PDA Paradox: Balancing Boundaries and Low Demand 🤯
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The PDA Paradox: Balancing Boundaries and Low Demand 🤯

👇 Low Demand Parenting? But Boundaries Matter Too! How Do I Find a Balance? Low demand parenting sounds great - following your child's lead, fostering independence. But where do boundaries fit in? In this video, I explore the challenges of balancing low demand principles with the need for structure and clear expectations. I discuss: ✅ The paradox of nurturing my child's autonomy while setting healthy boundaries. ✅ How do I balance school refusal with a need for learning ✅ I discuss school being academic with a social learning environment This video is for you if: 🫵 You're interested in low demand parenting but unsure about boundaries. 🫵 You're looking for ways to avoid power struggles without micromanaging your child. 🫵 You want to create a more peaceful and respectful home environment for everyone. Links: ▶️ School Refusal & PDA: Why "No" Might Mean More ! PDA Dad UK https://youtu.be/kJp_okIqf2I ▶️ AUTISM AND MASKING - understanding masking https://youtu.be/MTkZz5TWop8 ▶️ Calming the Chaos: Mental Health for Stressed-Out Carers - PDA Dad UK https://youtu.be/baLqWSr4aPk [Link to a low demand parenting resource website] [Link to a related video on setting boundaries with kids, if applicable] [Link to your website or blog about parenting, if applicable] Call to Action: 💬 Leave a comment below and share your experience with low demand parenting! ▶️ Subscribe for more videos on gentle parenting and creating a calm home. 👍 Like this video if you found it helpful for someone you know! ---------------------- 🌈 Welcome to PDA Dad UK, your dedicated space for understanding Autism, Pathological Demand Avoidance, and the broader spectrum of neurodiversities. 🌈 In this channel, we unravel not just the 'what' but the 'who' behind these conditions. While the terms Autism and PDA are commonly recognized, true understanding is often lacking, and that’s where this channel comes in. ➡️ Our mission is to fill this gap, promoting a culture of celebration, acceptance and heightened awareness. We journey through the complex realms of autism, addressing various facets such as Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), ADHD, Mental Health, and more. 👪 Behind this channel is a devoted father of a wonderful daughter with Autism and PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), embracing the highs and lows of neurodiverse parenting. This platform reflects my life—a fusion of personal narratives, shared experiences, and informative content. ➡️ Beyond just sharing, I hold roles that connect me deeper into this community, serving as a Carer's Ambassador for Devon Carers, an Ambassador Volunteer for DiAS, and an Ambassador for the PDA Society. Every video is a heart-to-heart conversation, a professional insight, or a beacon of enlightenment on the nuances of neurodiversity. This channel is for those seeking knowledge, comfort in communal experiences, or engagement with a like-minded, passionate audience. 🎬 Embark on this enlightening journey with me. Subscribe and activate notifications to never miss an update! 🔔 ******************** 📲 Let’s Connect! Follow PDA Dad UK on social media Instagram ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/pdadaduk/ Twitter ➡️ https://twitter.com/pdadaduk Facebook ➡️ https://m.facebook.com/PDADadUK/ #schoolrefusal #pda #pathologicaldemandavoidance #autism #neurodiversity #neurodivergent #pdadaduk CHAPTERS: Intro 00:00 What we're dealing with 00:35 The PDA paradox 01:06 Academics vs social learning 02:33 Structure vs mental health 04:21 Happiness vs success 06:28 What can I do? 07:12 Two factions 08:43 Your thoughts 10:45
Adult ADHD: Real Talk & Truths from Someone Who Gets It
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Adult ADHD: Real Talk & Truths from Someone Who Gets It

🧠🌶️ Adulting with ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder): Learn from a Real adult's ADHD Journey & Hacks! Interview with a Thriving Individual. 👂Join us for an unfiltered conversation with Chris Leasmith , an adult living and thriving with Adult ADHD! This interview dives deep into the day-to-day experiences, challenges, and triumphs of navigating life with ADHD. You'll hear about: ✅ Chris's unique journey with ADHD diagnosis and management. ✅ Practical tips and hacks for dealing with common ADHD struggles (inattention, hyperactivity, impulsivity). ✅ How Chris leverages their ADHD strengths for success (creativity, problem-solving, hyperfocus). ✅ Honest insights and advice for anyone suspecting they might have adult ADHD. ✅ Issues with the stigma associated with ADHD and other neurodiversities and disabilities. This video is for you if: 🫵 You're curious about what it's really like to live with adult ADHD. 🫵 You're seeking inspiration and practical strategies from someone who "gets it." 🫵You want to learn more about adult ADHD diagnosis and support options. Links: 🔗 MY ADHD JOURNEY - Chris Leasmith (pt 3) https://youtu.be/SIsHxCgKKh4 🔗 "I thought I was useless, then I discovered ADHD" - Interview with Patrick Bevan - PDA Dad UK https://youtu.be/xKkzbRJHkWM 🔗 I was the one who needed to change - Coming to terms with PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) https://youtu.be/uatBX-r3SI8 🔗 My ADHD Journey with Chris Leasmith Playlist https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLdw7tvgLcirrbGXZLyotbwagZrhrenGG1&si=J8W_1I2a7Yna7Xxg 📝 Leave a comment below and share your experience with ADHD! ▶️ Subscribe for more videos on living with and thriving with ADHD! 👍 Like this video if you found it helpful for yourself or someone you know! ___________________ 🧠 A-Z List of organisations for Mental Health - https://sandyhealthcentre.nhs.uk/practice-information/a-z-list-of-organisations-for-mental-health/ ---------------------- 🌈 Welcome to PDA Dad UK, your dedicated space for understanding Autism, Pathological Demand Avoidance, and the broader spectrum of neurodiversities. 🌈 In this channel, we unravel not just the 'what' but the 'who' behind these conditions. While the terms Autism and PDA are commonly recognized, true understanding is often lacking, and that’s where this channel comes in. ➡️ Our mission is to fill this gap, promoting a culture of celebration, acceptance and heightened awareness. We journey through the complex realms of autism, addressing various facets such as Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), ADHD, Mental Health, and more. 👪 Behind this channel is a devoted father of a wonderful daughter with Autism and PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), embracing the highs and lows of neurodiverse parenting. This platform reflects my life—a fusion of personal narratives, shared experiences, and informative content. ➡️ Beyond just sharing, I hold roles that connect me deeper into this community, serving as a Carer's Ambassador for Devon Carers, an Ambassador Volunteer for DiAS, and an Ambassador for the PDA Society. Every video is a heart-to-heart conversation, a professional insight, or a beacon of enlightenment on the nuances of neurodiversity. This channel is for those seeking knowledge, comfort in communal experiences, or engagement with a like-minded, passionate audience. 🎬 Embark on this enlightening journey with me. Subscribe and activate notifications to never miss an update! 🔔 ******************** 📲 Let’s Connect! Follow PDA Dad UK on social media Instagram ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/pdadaduk/ Twitter ➡️ https://twitter.com/pdadaduk Facebook ➡️ https://m.facebook.com/PDADadUK/ #adhd #adhdadults #autism #neurodiversity #neurodivergent #pdadaduk CHAPTERS: Intro 00:00 Ups and Downs 01:10 ADHD Medication 03:41 UK Med Shortages and Employment 06:54 Stigma of ADHD 10:26 ADHD in the Workplace 14:08 Meeting in the Middle 20:01 Opening Communications 22:55 Chris’s Personal Journey 29:42
🚫 School Refusal & PDA: Why "No" Might Mean More ! PDA Dad UK
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🚫 School Refusal & PDA: Why "No" Might Mean More ! PDA Dad UK

School Refusal with PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance)? You're Not Alone! Tips for Balancing Needs & Boundaries. 🚫 School Refusal & PDA: Why "No" Might Mean More ! PDA Dad UK Our daughter struggles with school refusal, and after much searching, we discovered it's linked to Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA). This video shares our journey of navigating meltdowns, rigid routines, and the constant battle between her needs and "normal" expectations. We'll discuss practical strategies that helped us: ✅ Understand the root causes of her school refusal through the lens of PDA. ✅ Develop a communication style that respects her need for control while setting clear boundaries. ✅ Create a flexible routine that minimizes anxiety and supports her sense of autonomy. ✅ Balance her PDA traits with typical childhood development. This video is for you if: 🫵 Your child struggles with school refusal and shows signs of PDA. 🫵 You're feeling lost and overwhelmed trying to navigate their needs. 🫵 You want to learn practical strategies to create a more peaceful and supportive home environment. Links: 🎭 Unmasking Neurodiversity-I get interviewed by The SEND Network! PDA Dad UK https://youtu.be/cvI-2r-aA6o 🖊️ Leave a comment below and share your experience with PDA. Subscribe for more videos on raising children with PDA! Like this video if you found it helpful for someone you know! 🧠 A-Z List of organisations for Mental Health - https://sandyhealthcentre.nhs.uk/practice-information/a-z-list-of-organisations-for-mental-health/ 📝 Leave a comment below and share your experience as a carer. ▶️ Subscribe for more videos on navigating caregiving and mental health. 👍 Like this video if you found it helpful for someone you know! ---------------------- 🌈 Welcome to PDA Dad UK, your dedicated space for understanding Autism, Pathological Demand Avoidance, and the broader spectrum of neurodiversities. 🌈 In this channel, we unravel not just the 'what' but the 'who' behind these conditions. While the terms Autism and PDA are commonly recognized, true understanding is often lacking, and that’s where this channel comes in. ➡️ Our mission is to fill this gap, promoting a culture of celebration, acceptance and heightened awareness. We journey through the complex realms of autism, addressing various facets such as Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), ADHD, Mental Health, and more. 👪 Behind this channel is a devoted father of a wonderful daughter with Autism and PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), embracing the highs and lows of neurodiverse parenting. This platform reflects my life—a fusion of personal narratives, shared experiences, and informative content. ➡️ Beyond just sharing, I hold roles that connect me deeper into this community, serving as a Carer's Ambassador for Devon Carers, an Ambassador Volunteer for DiAS, and an Ambassador for the PDA Society. Every video is a heart-to-heart conversation, a professional insight, or a beacon of enlightenment on the nuances of neurodiversity. This channel is for those seeking knowledge, comfort in communal experiences, or engagement with a like-minded, passionate audience. 🎬 Embark on this enlightening journey with me. Subscribe and activate notifications to never miss an update! 🔔 ******************** 📲 Let’s Connect! Follow PDA Dad UK on social media Instagram ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/pdadaduk/ Twitter ➡️ https://twitter.com/pdadaduk Facebook ➡️ https://m.facebook.com/PDADadUK/ #schoolrefusal #pda #pathologicaldemandavoidance #autism #neurodiversity #neurodivergent #pdadaduk CHAPTERS: Intro 00:00 Our experience 00:45 PDA, Autism and School Refusal 01:35 The importance of school 03:04 Balancing PDA with being a kid 04:45 Black, white and grey worlds 06:03 Every family, every child is different 07:12 Masking 07:49 Communication 09:03 Support available 10:54
Calming the Chaos: Mental Health for Stressed-Out Carers - PDA Dad UK
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Calming the Chaos: Mental Health for Stressed-Out Carers - PDA Dad UK

😰 Anxiety on High Alert: Caring for My Family While My Wife's in Hospital 🤹‍♀️ Juggling Caregiving & Anxiety? ‍‍‍ Tips to Prioritize Your Mental Health When Life Gets Tough 🚑 With my wife in the hospital, balancing caregiving and my own mental health has become increasingly difficult. It feels like the weight of the world is on my shoulders. Suddenly, the house feels chaotic, and anxiety is at an all-time high. In this video, I share my honest experience navigating this stressful time and the steps I'm taking to prioritize my mental health. You'll learn: ✅ How to recognize the signs of caregiver anxiety. ✅ Practical coping mechanisms to manage daily stress. ✅ Strategies for maintaining a sense of normalcy for yourself and your family. ✅ Tips for finding support and resources when you need them most. This video is for you if: 🫵 You're a carer for a loved one and feeling overwhelmed by anxiety. 🫵 You're struggling to balance caregiving with your own mental well-being. 🫵 You're searching for practical tools and support to navigate a challenging situation. 🧠 A-Z List of organisations for Mental Health - https://sandyhealthcentre.nhs.uk/practice-information/a-z-list-of-organisations-for-mental-health/ 📝 Leave a comment below and share your experience as a carer. ▶️ Subscribe for more videos on navigating caregiving and mental health. 👍 Like this video if you found it helpful for someone you know! ---------------------- 🌈 Welcome to PDA Dad UK, your dedicated space for understanding Autism, Pathological Demand Avoidance, and the broader spectrum of neurodiversities. 🌈 In this channel, we unravel not just the 'what' but the 'who' behind these conditions. While the terms Autism and PDA are commonly recognized, true understanding is often lacking, and that’s where this channel comes in. ➡️ Our mission is to fill this gap, promoting a culture of celebration, acceptance and heightened awareness. We journey through the complex realms of autism, addressing various facets such as Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), ADHD, Mental Health, and more. 👪 Behind this channel is a devoted father of a wonderful daughter with Autism and PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), embracing the highs and lows of neurodiverse parenting. This platform reflects my life—a fusion of personal narratives, shared experiences, and informative content. ➡️ Beyond just sharing, I hold roles that connect me deeper into this community, serving as a Carer's Ambassador for Devon Carers, an Ambassador Volunteer for DiAS, and an Ambassador for the PDA Society. Every video is a heart-to-heart conversation, a professional insight, or a beacon of enlightenment on the nuances of neurodiversity. This channel is for those seeking knowledge, comfort in communal experiences, or engagement with a like-minded, passionate audience. 🎬 Embark on this enlightening journey with me. Subscribe and activate notifications to never miss an update! 🔔 ******************** 📲 Let’s Connect! Follow PDA Dad UK on social media Instagram ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/pdadaduk/ Twitter ➡️ https://twitter.com/pdadaduk Facebook ➡️ https://m.facebook.com/PDADadUK/ #mentalhealth #carer #autism #pathologicaldemandavoidance #neurodiversity #neurodivergent #pdadaduk CHAPTERS: Intro 00:00 The snowball effect 01:02 Increase of anxiety 02:48 Anxiety to meltdown 04:04 School Avoidance 04:34 The effect on me 05:31 Taking time for me 07:59 Where are we now? 08:48 The importance of community 09:54 Challenging world 10:24 Summing up 13:32
I was the one who needed to change - Coming to terms with PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance)
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Understand Neurodiversity - PDA Dad UK

I was the one who needed to change - Coming to terms with PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance)

🤦 I was wrong! I thought PDA and Autism was something that needed fixing...but it was me that needed to change! 🥰 Being a dad is amazing, but it can also be challenging, especially when your family is neurodivergent. In this video, I share my honest experiences of navigating fatherhood with a Neurodivergent family (autism, PDA, ADHD, bipolar). 🤔 I talk about the unexpected hurdles, the heartwarming moments, and most importantly, the ways I learned to adapt and build a strong, supportive family unit. You'll learn: ✅ Common challenges faced by dads of neurodivergent children, basically having to relearn parenting from the ground up). ✅ Practical tips for navigating meltdowns, sensory issues, and communication differences. ✅ Strategies for building a positive and understanding relationship with your child. ✅ How to find support and connect with other dads on similar journeys. This video is for you if: ✅ You're a new dad to a neurodivergent child and feeling overwhelmed. ✅ You're looking for practical advice and support from another dad. ✅ You want to learn how to thrive in your role and build a strong family bond. Purchase PDA Space Summit back pocket pass here https://www.thepdaspace.com/summit-2024 🛍 Check our Merch: https://www.redbubble.com/shop/ap/102698297 ✨ And don’t forget to subscribe to the Channel! https://www.youtube.com/@PDADadUK?sub_confirmation=1 ******************** 🗃IN VIDEO LINKS ✅ CAN YOU HELP? Social Services Failure! https://youtu.be/TmEunw6qviw ✅ PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) traits Explained https://youtu.be/BAcQatw5GiQ ✅ MARIE GENTLES from DON'T EXCLUDE ME - Full Interview with Sarah Boon https://youtu.be/_IGJGyCyX-8 ******************** 🏅 A-Z List of organisations for Mental Health - https://sandyhealthcentre.nhs.uk/practice-information/a-z-list-of-organisations-for-mental-health/ ******************** 🌈 Welcome to PDA Dad UK, your dedicated space for understanding Autism, Pathological Demand Avoidance, and the broader spectrum of neurodiversities. 🌈 In this channel, we unravel not just the 'what' but the 'who' behind these conditions. While the terms Autism and PDA are commonly recognized, true understanding is often lacking, and that’s where this channel comes in. ➡️ Our mission is to fill this gap, promoting a culture of acceptance and heightened awareness. We journey through the complex realms of autism, addressing various facets such as Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), ADHD, Mental Health, and more. Behind this channel is a devoted father of a wonderful daughter with Autism and PDA, embracing the highs and lows of neurodiverse parenting. This platform reflects my life—a fusion of personal narratives, shared experiences, and informative content. ➡️ Beyond just sharing, I hold roles that connect me deeper into this community, serving as a Carer's Ambassador for Devon Carers, an Ambassador Volunteer for DiAS, and an Ambassador for the PDA Society. Every video is a heart-to-heart conversation, a professional insight, or a beacon of enlightenment on the nuances of neurodiversity. This channel is for those seeking knowledge, comfort in communal experiences, or engagement with a like-minded, passionate audience. 🎬 Embark on this enlightening journey with me. Subscribe and activate notifications to never miss an update! 🔔 ******************** 📲 Let’s Connect! Follow PDA Dad UK on social media Instagram ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/pdadaduk/ Twitter ➡️ https://twitter.com/pdadaduk Facebook ➡️ https://m.facebook.com/PDADadUK/ ☑️ Join the UK Autism Spectrum Parents Support Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ukaspsg/ ✅ Visit the official website: https://pdadaduk.wixsite.com/pdadaduk 🎙 Check The Grumpy Gits Show: https://youtu.be/lGYgYk_UYBw CHAPTERS Intro 00:00 Welcome 01:09 About me 01:21 The Duties of Dads 02:46 The problem of problem solving 06:22 Learning to share 09:26 Talk to Actual PDAers 11:11 Neurodiverse legends 12:14 Relearn parenting 13:39 Low-demand 14:26 Finding communication 15:00 Being present 17:29 Future focus19:46 Changing me 20:21 Learning compassion 21:13 United Parenting 22:05 To Sum up 23:53 ************* #pathologicaldemandavoidance #pda #autism #pdadaduk #neurodiversity neurodivergence
🤯 Exposed: Failing Social Services: Social Worker Interview - PDA Dad UK
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Understand Neurodiversity - PDA Dad UK

🤯 Exposed: Failing Social Services: Social Worker Interview - PDA Dad UK

👩‍⚕The Social Services system is broken. There is a lack of understanding about Neurodiversity, and the default attitude is to use parent blame before actually supporting our kids. 📺 In this episode I talk a qualified social worker who is also a parent to an autistic son. Wishing to remain anonymous, she goes into detail about the faults she sees in the current system, including the lack of training and support for social workers. 🚼 This very revealing interview highlights the need for radical change in the current social services system. This is a powerful and necessary conversation. Addressing the shortcomings in the social services system, especially concerning neurodiversity, is crucial for creating a more inclusive and supportive environment for children and families. The insights from someone with firsthand experience as both a social worker and a parent of an autistic child can shed light on areas for improvement and help advocate for much-needed changes. 🛍 Check our Merch: https://www.redbubble.com/shop/ap/102698297 ✨ And don’t forget to subscribe to the Channel! https://www.youtube.com/@PDADadUK?sub_confirmation=1 ******************** 🗃IN VIDEO LINKS ✅ CAN YOU HELP? Social Services Failure! https://youtu.be/TmEunw6qviw ✅ PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) traits Explained https://youtu.be/BAcQatw5GiQ ✅ MARIE GENTLES from DON'T EXCLUDE ME - Full Interview with Sarah Boon https://youtu.be/_IGJGyCyX-8 ******************** 🏅 A-Z List of organisations for Mental Health - https://sandyhealthcentre.nhs.uk/practice-information/a-z-list-of-organisations-for-mental-health/ ******************** 🌈 Welcome to PDA Dad UK, your dedicated space for understanding Autism, Pathological Demand Avoidance, and the broader spectrum of neurodiversities. 🌈 In this channel, we unravel not just the 'what' but the 'who' behind these conditions. While the terms Autism and PDA are commonly recognized, true understanding is often lacking, and that’s where this channel comes in. ➡️ Our mission is to fill this gap, promoting a culture of acceptance and heightened awareness. We journey through the complex realms of autism, addressing various facets such as Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), ADHD, Mental Health, and more. Behind this channel is a devoted father of a wonderful daughter with Autism and PDA, embracing the highs and lows of neurodiverse parenting. This platform reflects my life—a fusion of personal narratives, shared experiences, and informative content. ➡️ Beyond just sharing, I hold roles that connect me deeper into this community, serving as a Carer's Ambassador for Devon Carers, an Ambassador Volunteer for DiAS, and an Ambassador for the PDA Society. Every video is a heart-to-heart conversation, a professional insight, or a beacon of enlightenment on the nuances of neurodiversity. This channel is for those seeking knowledge, comfort in communal experiences, or engagement with a like-minded, passionate audience. 🎬 Embark on this enlightening journey with me. Subscribe and activate notifications to never miss an update! 🔔 ******************** 📲 Let’s Connect! Follow PDA Dad UK on social media Instagram ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/pdadaduk/ Twitter ➡️ https://twitter.com/pdadaduk Facebook ➡️ https://m.facebook.com/PDADadUK/ ☑️ Join the UK Autism Spectrum Parents Support Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ukaspsg/ ✅ Visit the official website: https://pdadaduk.wixsite.com/pdadaduk 🎙 Check The Grumpy Gits Show: https://youtu.be/lGYgYk_UYBw CHAPTERS Intro 00:00 Social Worker 00:40 Experience in Social Work 01:22 The Problems Faced by Social Workers 03:29 Thinking about the families 04:28 Who can Social Workers Support? 06:51 Parent Blame 09:53 PDA Dad's Experience 13:18 Is there training and support for Social Workers? 15:27 What can we do to actually start change? 21:13 The problem of politics 26:05 Reclaiming "humanity" 27:29 Open communication 29:17 Therapy and Supervision for Social Workers 32:41 Toxicity - Like the Post Office Scandal 35:38 What Can We Do? 36:23 ************* #socialservices #autism #pathologicaldemandavoidance
🔍 5 Myths and Misconceptions about Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) & Autism  ♾️ - PDA Dad UK
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Understand Neurodiversity - PDA Dad UK

🔍 5 Myths and Misconceptions about Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) & Autism ♾️ - PDA Dad UK

👀 There are so many myths and misconceptions about Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), autism, and Neurodiversity. ❔ How many times have parents and carers of SEND kids been told, "Your child is just naughty!" How many neurodivergent people have been told "You don't look neurodivergent!" How many autistic people have been labelled as being "unempathetic"? 🔍 In this episode I look to dispell 5 myths about Pathological Demand Avoidance and Autism that particularly get to me. 🛍 Check our Merch: https://www.redbubble.com/shop/ap/102698297 ✨ And don’t forget to subscribe to the Channel! https://www.youtube.com/@PDADadUK?sub_confirmation=1 ******************** 🗃IN VIDEO LINKS ✅ PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) traits Explained https://youtu.be/BAcQatw5GiQ 🚸 The Hidden Reason Why I Hate My School Uniform #autism https://youtu.be/B0mPN9Xs4j0 ♾️ Autism and Pathological Demand Avoidance Mythbusting - All autistic people AREN'T like Rain Man https://youtu.be/FlMQ5bpql5U 🎭 Unmasking Neurodiversity-I get interviewed by The SEND Network! PDA Dad UK https://youtu.be/cvI-2r-aA6o ✋ Welcome. A look at autistic and Pathological Demand Avoidance meltdowns and anxiety https://youtu.be/vsQjWzFtL9g 🧠 "I thought I was useless, then I discovered ADHD" - Interview with Patrick Bevan - PDA Dad UK https://youtu.be/xKkzbRJHkWM ******************** 🏅 A-Z List of organisations for Mental Health - https://sandyhealthcentre.nhs.uk/practice-information/a-z-list-of-organisations-for-mental-health/ ******************** 🌈 Welcome to PDA Dad UK, your dedicated space for understanding Autism, Pathological Demand Avoidance, and the broader spectrum of neurodiversities. 🌈 In this channel, we unravel not just the 'what' but the 'who' behind these conditions. While the terms Autism and PDA are commonly recognized, true understanding is often lacking, and that’s where this channel comes in. ➡️ Our mission is to fill this gap, promoting a culture of acceptance and heightened awareness. We journey through the complex realms of autism, addressing various facets such as Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), ADHD, Mental Health, and more. Behind this channel is a devoted father of a wonderful daughter with Autism and PDA, embracing the highs and lows of neurodiverse parenting. This platform reflects my life—a fusion of personal narratives, shared experiences, and informative content. ➡️ Beyond just sharing, I hold roles that connect me deeper into this community, serving as a Carer's Ambassador for Devon Carers, an Ambassador Volunteer for DiAS, and an Ambassador for the PDA Society. Every video is a heart-to-heart conversation, a professional insight, or a beacon of enlightenment on the nuances of neurodiversity. This channel is for those seeking knowledge, comfort in communal experiences, or engagement with a like-minded, passionate audience. 🎬 Embark on this enlightening journey with me. Subscribe and activate notifications to never miss an update! 🔔 ******************** 📲 Let’s Connect! Follow PDA Dad UK on social media Instagram ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/pdadaduk/ Twitter ➡️ https://twitter.com/pdadaduk Facebook ➡️ https://m.facebook.com/PDADadUK/ ☑️ Join the UK Autism Spectrum Parents Support Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ukaspsg/ ✅ Visit the official website: https://pdadaduk.wixsite.com/pdadaduk 🎙 Check The Grumpy Gits Show: https://youtu.be/lGYgYk_UYBw CHAPTERS Intro 00:00 No 1: Appear rude or Stubborn 03:23 No 2: Meltdowns Come From Nowhere 07:02 No 3: Appear Disobedient or Naughty 10:55 No 4: No Empathy 13:45 No 5: You Don't Look Autistic 17:24 ************* #pathologicaldemandavoidance #pda #pdadaduk
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